*Per some readers’ requests I’ve altered the spelling of some words to bypass their filters. One of the most common complaints we hear from clients is that one partner would be perfectly happy if seks disappeared from their lives. (This complaint could come from either partner or both.) In fact, we hear this so often that it’s a question I’ll often ask clients who present with seksual aversion, disinterest, or low desire, to gauge their association with the experience: If a g