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B'sha'ah Tova Faux Pas
Adina’s eyes darted around my office, then closed and watered with unsuccessfully repressed shame. She was trying to explain the freshly...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 4, 20214 min read
Religiously Scared
This is a Dear Therapist column, which originally appeared in the Five Towns Jewish Times: Dear Elisheva, This time of year is always...

Elisheva Liss
Aug 19, 20216 min read
This One Thing Can Change Everything
There's something I've learned in the course of both my work and my spiritual studies has made a profound difference in the way I view...

Elisheva Liss
Jul 23, 20213 min read
Fighting about Whether to Have a Baby
How do you decide when to start a family? How many kids to have? When to stop having kids? Even if we knew exactly how many kids we hoped...

Elisheva Liss
Jun 4, 20214 min read
Unpopular Truths about Israel
For anyone who is interested in the facts about the Israeli/ Palestinian conflict, here is a very summarized version, including some...

Elisheva Liss
Jun 2, 20219 min read
Anti-semitism on the Rise
This post is adapted from my weekly schmoozeletter. When I was a kid, many of our religious teachers were first and second generation...

Elisheva Liss
May 21, 20213 min read
How a Chacham Becomes a Rasha: Some Thoughts about Questions
A few years ago, I was speaking with a high school student who was struggling with her faith. She told me that she’d learned some...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 25, 20216 min read
The Covid Vaccine and Fearing the Unknown
When I was a kid, there was this corny joke that made the rounds in our Jewish schools and camps. It went something like this: Joker: I...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 31, 20204 min read
"My Husband's 'Zera L'vatala' Will Be My Fault"
“I was taught that my husband’s purity and holiness are basically my responsibility. As long as we can ‘be together,’ that saves him from...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 11, 20205 min read
Why Do Some People "Do Better" in Therapy Than Others? 7 Factors Satisfied Therapy Clients Share
Have you ever noticed that some people will swear that therapy totally changed their lives for the better, and others will say they’ve...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 5, 20203 min read
"How Often Are You Supposed to 'Be Intimate'?"
Have you ever wondered how often people have sex? (I purposely used the nebulously awkward euphemism “be intimate” in the title because...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 2, 20202 min read
Is it Possible to Create Attraction Where There is None?
For so many couples, this is their million-dollar question. Hope for their relationship, for their future, hinges on the answer....

Elisheva Liss
Oct 29, 20203 min read
What's the point of life?
What’s the point of life? People actually google this; we are so desperately seeking meaning and truth. (Sometimes. Sometimes we seek ice...

Elisheva Liss
Oct 8, 20203 min read
The Clouds of Glory as a Message of Moderation
The more I know, the less I know. Do you relate to this? I sometimes look back at words I wrote with such conviction when I was younger,...

Elisheva Liss
Oct 7, 20202 min read
Unsent Letter to my Client before Rosh HaShana
Dearest Client, Well, it’s been quite a year. At this time, we have a custom to take interpersonal stock and make amends. Thank you for...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 14, 20202 min read
Pre-holidays and Back to School Stress Getting to You?
It’s September, and children everywhere are yanking out their uniforms, knapsacks, paperwork, and supplies, packing up lunches and...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 9, 20205 min read
I Checked My Privilege. Here's What I Found:
I found that I am, indeed, quite privileged. I was raised by two loving, wise, imperfect, but dedicated parents. I was taught the value...

Elisheva Liss
Jul 29, 20202 min read
I Am a Jew, and Here are My Plans for World Domination:
An essay by: Elisheva Liss Much to my people’s chagrin, we have finally been outed as the nefarious villains that we are. I feel the...

Elisheva Liss
Jul 17, 20202 min read


What If You Cheated on Your Spouse?
An Infidelity Dilemma The following story was shared with me by an acquaintance who: Is not a therapy client of mine Specifically asked...

Elisheva Liss
Jun 4, 20205 min read
I Don't Want to Be a Statistic
What’s the deal with humans as numbers? In college and grad school, I was a decent student, but I did fail one course: statistics. (I...

Elisheva Liss
May 21, 20204 min read
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