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The Suicide Trend: When Great People Want to Die
Suicide has been getting a lot of attention in the news lately, due to some high profile cases. Shortly before that, the second season of...

Elisheva Liss
Jun 11, 20185 min read


My Kid “Frummed out” in Israel:Should We be Glad or Concerned?Seven Talking Points for Parents
“It’s not that I mind Rachel becoming more religious; we expected that to a degree, when we allowed her to go to Israel for the year....

Elisheva Liss
Jun 6, 20187 min read


Women Who Hate the Niddah Laws
Sima had ostensibly done everything “right”. She was a prototypical “aidel maidel”- a respectful daughter, a helpful sister, a caring...

Elisheva Liss
May 28, 20185 min read


Choosing to Remain in an Imperfect Marriage
Leah closes her eyes and pauses for a moment, then swallows. I’ve come to recognize this subtlety as a cue that something deeply personal...

Elisheva Liss
May 23, 20185 min read


Orthodox Women and Sexual Self-Pleasuring
Kayla (pseudonym) was referred to me a number of years ago, by her caring Rebbetzen and mentor, for what she described as a “very...

Elisheva Liss
May 12, 20185 min read


Intimacy vs. Sex
The well-groomed young couple settled into the matching navy, velvet club chairs in my office, and glanced at one another. After a beat,...

Elisheva Liss
May 5, 20184 min read


She Secretly Wished Her Husband Would Die
Shaindy’s eyes filled before she lowered them to examine her lap. She had been feeling stuck and hopeless in her marriage for several...

Elisheva Liss
Apr 30, 20185 min read


Does My Anxiety Mean I Lack Emunah?
Tzivi is a deeply devout 24 year old mother and wife. She prays twice daily, while raising her toddler and baby, and working 30 hours a...

Elisheva Liss
Apr 23, 20183 min read


On Touching Your Wife: A Guide For Perplexed Husbands
Elisha and Ariella are a charismatic couple in their early 30s, with a frisky toddler, and a baby on the way. They generally treat each...

Elisheva Liss
Apr 16, 20185 min read
She Was Told Never Say No to Your Husband
Miriam and Chaim had been married for just over ten years, and was happily and busily raising their brood of five lively children, when...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 13, 20176 min read


Sexual Assault Allegations in this Week’s Parsha
It seems that every time we click on a newsfeed, there are more accusations of sexual assault against high profile personalities. In the...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 7, 20174 min read


Why Are There So Many More Divorces Nowadays?
It’s a magnificent summer night- 75 perfect degrees, and I’m walking over a local scenic bridge to the beach, with a close friend from...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 2, 20176 min read


Sexual Abuse with No Abuser
Beila and Sruly (pseudonyms) are a charming couple in their 20’s. They were referred by Beila’s private therapist, for an unconsummated...

Elisheva Liss
Nov 13, 20177 min read


Rethinking the Phrase: “Off the Derech”
Have you ever heard another Jew described as going “off the derech”? What did that mean to you? How did that make you feel? I’m having a...

Elisheva Liss
Nov 1, 20173 min read


Flavors of Forgiveness: What to do when it's not "all good"
Welcome to the season of begging forgiveness. We run around apologizing, trying to let go of past resentments and obtain pardons for our...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 26, 20172 min read


Teaching Children about “The Birds and the Bees”
There are, essentially, only two ways for kids to hear about sex: their parents, and Someplace Else. While that “someplace else” may be...

Elisheva Liss
Jul 27, 20174 min read


Education Without Soul
Leah [pseudonym] is a 21 year old assistant preschool teacher in a beis yaakov school and part time college student. Sweet, social, and...

Elisheva Liss
Feb 23, 20174 min read


How to Date for Marriage
Choosing a spouse is possibly the most impactful decision that we humans make over the course of a lifetime. We are choosing our roommate, co-parent, romantic partner, teammate, financial partner, and closest companion- ideally, for life. Most of us in the West, have more autonomy and opportunity than ever before in history. And we seem to discussing more emotional complexity, and demanding more of our love relationships than other times or cultures. And while science and tec

Elisheva Liss
Feb 9, 20177 min read


The Perfect In-Laws
Dan and Liz were fighting about their families again. Both educated professional thirty-somethings, they do an impressive job juggling...

Elisheva Liss
Apr 12, 20167 min read


Help! My Wife Won't Go Back to Work
Anna was a 28 year old CPA, well respected in her company, and on track for eventual promotions. She married Josh, a 29 year old rising...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 28, 20166 min read
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