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A Simple Sexuality Education Message From the Megila
One year, when I went to shul for megila reading, I was a few minutes early, so I stopped to watch the adorable costumed children running...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 9, 20203 min read
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Better Prep For Wedding Night and Beyond
More Shovevim thoughts on enhancing marital intimacy: Something I have struggled with for a few years now is wanting to create and share...

Elisheva Liss
Feb 9, 20203 min read
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The Problem with Religious Sexuality Education
As many of you know, one of the most important aspects of the work we do with couples and individuals, is treating the results and...

Elisheva Liss
Feb 2, 20204 min read
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Why Should I Pray for Life When I Would Actually Prefer to Die
“This time of year is especially hard for me, but it’s actually always like this. I wake up in the morning, and I’m supposed to say...

Elisheva Liss
Oct 6, 20194 min read
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When G-d as "Our Father" Conjures Nightmares Instead of Comfort
“I appreciate my Rabbi so much, and I wanted to be inspired by the drasha, but I couldn’t concentrate on what he was saying. All I kept...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 25, 20193 min read
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Ballad of the Secretly Burnt Out Kollel Wife
“I’m so happy and grateful- his Rebbe said he’s a meyuchad, a lamdan, really something special.” “I just want to do whatever is best for...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 18, 20193 min read
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When Av and Elul Trigger Depression and Anxiety and What We Can Do About It
Something I've been thinking about for awhile (like years) is how this time of year in the Jewish calendar, the months of Av and Elul,...

Elisheva Liss
Aug 23, 20193 min read
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How Do You Take Your Torah?
“I’m not sure if you’re interested or ready to hear this, but there is something I’d like to suggest, with your permission.” This is...

Elisheva Liss
Jun 6, 20194 min read
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When Talmud Torah Becomes Avoda Zara
There are certain memorable moments from sessions past that stay with me in vivid detail. It was a couple’s intake session years ago, and...

Elisheva Liss
May 30, 20195 min read
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"My High School Principal Nearly Destroyed Me"
“My Principal Wouldn’t Let the Other Girls Talk to Me” A courageous letter from a girl who was deliberately ostracized, to the principal...

Elisheva Liss
May 22, 20197 min read
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National Trauma: A Message From Zachor and Amalek
When terrible things happen, it’s natural to react intensely. It can be a tremendous challenge to even imagine life beyond the event and...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 14, 20194 min read
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Trouble In the Bedroom: Marital Sexual Problems and How We Can Help
Every year around this time, I wonder if this will be the year I try and “do something about it.” These are the weeks we call Shovevim...

Elisheva Liss
Jan 6, 20196 min read
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What if My B’show Was Wrong
What if my b’show didn’t work? This post will undoubtedly elicit strong reactions from readers on both sides of this issue. I want to...

Elisheva Liss
Jan 3, 20195 min read
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Could We Please Stop Telling Young Women that Marrying a Yeshiva Guy Is the Only Way to Get a Good Husband
This will be a short, not-so-sweet, but to-the-point post (bordering on rant). To some, what I’m about to say might be obvious, but to...

Elisheva Liss
Nov 26, 20182 min read
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Powerful Judges Raping Women in this Week’s Parsha
There is so much kid-friendly content in this week’s parsha, and such an abbreviated week for studying it, that we often just gloss over...

Elisheva Liss
Oct 5, 20183 min read
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Confronting Happiness - Anxiety
Have you ever found that happiness sometimes brings fear? That often when we find, receive, or achieve something good, it’s almost like:...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 27, 20186 min read
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Parental Plane Letter to My Child Going Off to Israel
In preparation for Rosh Chodesh Elul, I am deviating from my usual blogging style to share something a bit more personal. The following...

Elisheva Liss
Aug 9, 20187 min read
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The Suicide Trend: When Great People Want to Die
Suicide has been getting a lot of attention in the news lately, due to some high profile cases. Shortly before that, the second season of...

Elisheva Liss
Jun 12, 20185 min read
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My Kid “Frummed out” in Israel:Should We be Glad or Concerned?Seven Talking Points for Parents
“It’s not that I mind Rachel becoming more religious; we expected that to a degree, when we allowed her to go to Israel for the year....

Elisheva Liss
Jun 7, 20187 min read
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Women Who Hate the Niddah Laws
Sima had ostensibly done everything “right”. She was a prototypical “aidel maidel”- a respectful daughter, a helpful sister, a caring...

Elisheva Liss
May 29, 20185 min read
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