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On Touching Your Wife: A Guide For Perplexed Husbands
Elisha and Ariella are a charismatic couple in their early 30s, with a frisky toddler, and a baby on the way. They generally treat each...

Elisheva Liss
Apr 17, 20185 min read
She Was Told Never Say No to Your Husband
Miriam and Chaim had been married for just over ten years, and was happily and busily raising their brood of five lively children, when...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 13, 20176 min read


Sexual Assault Allegations in this Week’s Parsha
It seems that every time we click on a newsfeed, there are more accusations of sexual assault against high profile personalities. In the...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 7, 20174 min read


Why Are There So Many More Divorces Nowadays?
It’s a magnificent summer night- 75 perfect degrees, and I’m walking over a local scenic bridge to the beach, with a close friend from...

Elisheva Liss
Dec 2, 20176 min read


Sexual Abuse with No Abuser
Beila and Sruly (pseudonyms) are a charming couple in their 20’s. They were referred by Beila’s private therapist, for an unconsummated...

Elisheva Liss
Nov 13, 20177 min read


Rethinking the Phrase: “Off the Derech”
Have you ever heard another Jew described as going “off the derech”? What did that mean to you? How did that make you feel? I’m having a...

Elisheva Liss
Nov 2, 20173 min read


Flavors of Forgiveness: What to do when it's not "all good"
Welcome to the season of begging forgiveness. We run around apologizing, trying to let go of past resentments and obtain pardons for our...

Elisheva Liss
Sep 27, 20172 min read


Teaching Children about “The Birds and the Bees”
There are, essentially, only two ways for kids to hear about sex: their parents, and Someplace Else. While that “someplace else” may be...

Elisheva Liss
Jul 28, 20174 min read


Education Without Soul
Leah [pseudonym] is a 21 year old assistant preschool teacher in a beis yaakov school and part time college student. Sweet, social, and...

Elisheva Liss
Feb 23, 20174 min read


How to Date for Marriage
Choosing a spouse is possibly the most impactful decision that we humans make over the course of a lifetime. We are choosing our roommate, co-parent, romantic partner, teammate, financial partner, and closest companion- ideally, for life. Most of us in the West, have more autonomy and opportunity than ever before in history. And we seem to discussing more emotional complexity, and demanding more of our love relationships than other times or cultures. And while science and tec

Elisheva Liss
Feb 9, 20177 min read


The Perfect In-Laws
Dan and Liz were fighting about their families again. Both educated professional thirty-somethings, they do an impressive job juggling...

Elisheva Liss
Apr 12, 20167 min read


Help! My Wife Won't Go Back to Work
Anna was a 28 year old CPA, well respected in her company, and on track for eventual promotions. She married Josh, a 29 year old rising...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 29, 20166 min read


Before Prozac - Natural Way to Try Fighting Depression
“Do you think I need to be on medication?” I get this question often. A client comes in feeling down, sad, weepy, scared, stressed,...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 29, 20165 min read


Sensory Stimulation for the Sexually Squeamish
Are you one of those people who don’t like to be touched? Do you get a little queasy when someone moves in for a hug? Does the idea of...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 14, 201610 min read


The Pros and Cons of Scheduled Sex
In working with couples on their sexual relationships, an issue that arises frequently is the challenge of sex and timing. Sometimes the...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 14, 20164 min read


Why Am I Not In the Mood for Sex (7 Common Causes of Low Desire In Women)
Not feeling “in the mood”? You’re not the only one. So many women feel confused, frustrated, guilt-ridden, annoyed, or discouraged-...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 14, 20164 min read


What Is Narrative Therapy?
A narrative is a story. Each of our lives could be viewed as a very long story. The narrative approach focuses on this model, and the...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 14, 20165 min read


Sex Is a Skill
Debbie slumped in her chair in a cloud of defeat. “I really do love my husband, and I think he’s handsome, too, but I’m just not a sexual...

Elisheva Liss
Mar 14, 20163 min read


Overcoming My Blogging Anxiety
Some people call it a “bucket list”- Something you keep meaning to do. I’ve always had a lot of thoughts- plans, ideas, even narratives....

Elisheva Liss
Feb 8, 20163 min read
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