Elisheva LissSep 27, 20234 minMen are sometimes surprised to learn this about pleasuringTrigger warning: this post will be more explicit than usual. (It's excerpted from one of the schmoozeletter emails) Often, when working...
Elisheva LissJul 20, 20235 minHow can someone go from hating sexual activity to enjoying it?TW: This post references sexual trauma. “What’s the most common problem you see in couples?” someone asked me this weekend. Therapists...
Elisheva LissJul 5, 20239 minIs Using P-rnography Considered Cheating on a Partner?Let’s consider this changed-to-protect-writer’s-identity question, as a springboard to address some issues that arise for couples around...
Elisheva LissJul 2, 20234 minThe Unconsummated CoupleThe Unconsummated Couple They present for therapy with so much shame, sometimes blaming themselves, sometimes each other, or just one of...