Elisheva Liss Dec 6, 2020 3 min Why Do Some People "Do Better" in Therapy Than Others? 7 Factors Satisfied Therapy Clients Share Have you ever noticed that some people will swear that therapy totally changed their lives for the better, and others will say they’ve tr...
Elisheva Liss Dec 2, 2020 2 min "How Often Are You Supposed to 'Be Intimate'?" Have you ever wondered how often people have sex? (I purposely used the nebulously awkward euphemism “be intimate” in the title because g...
Elisheva Liss Oct 29, 2020 3 min Is it Possible to Create Attraction Where There is None? For so many couples, this is their million-dollar question. Hope for their relationship, for their future, hinges on the answer. Unfortun...
Elisheva Liss Oct 18, 2020 2 min Separation Is Not Always "Step One to a Divorce" Couples therapy is intense work. Back in grad school, I had a professor say: “We’re not in the business of saving marriages. We’re in the...
Elisheva Liss Aug 16, 2020 4 min Your Body May Have Responded to the Abuse, BUT That Doesn’t Mean You Wanted It Trigger warning: This post deals with sensitive topics relating to sexual abuse trauma. Ho-kay. This is not really my lane. I don’t treat...
Elisheva Liss Aug 11, 2020 4 min How Do I Get My Partner to Come to Therapy? Do you want to work on your relationship in therapy, but have a partner who just doesn’t want to go? Well, you’re not alone. This is a su...
Elisheva Liss Jul 3, 2020 4 min “I Used to Rape My Wife” Trigger warning: this may be difficult to read for survivors of trauma. Proceed with caution: Gittel and Shuey have been married for almo...
Elisheva Liss Jun 4, 2020 5 min What If You Cheated on Your Spouse? Infidelity Dilemma The following story was shared with me by an acquaintance who: Is not a therapy client of mine Specifically asked me t...
Elisheva Liss May 7, 2020 4 min What If I Can't Climax The phone rang, and a shy-sounding young woman introduced herself. “Hi. I’m not really sure if I need therapy. Could I tell you my issue,...
Elisheva Liss Feb 9, 2020 2 min Better Prep For Wedding Night and Beyond More Shovevim thoughts on enhancing marital intimacy: Something I have struggled with for a few years now is wanting to create and share ...
